Is What I'm Doing Online Harment?!?

You could be at fault for referring to it even though you switched names but she is equally at fault for monitoring your activity. That is against the law without a court order and I'm sure she didn't have one. I would however contact your attorney so that all of this is doented since from the onset of it you seem to be in the middle of it all only trying to help a friend. Sometimes when we step in to carry the load for someone we end up with the whole load and it soon becomes too heavy for us. An attorney will help carry it for you but in the future, including posting these things even on answers to get some opinions, I would NOT write about or speak about this situation even to your friend and put it all in the past by obeying the Judge. Instead, do your battle with the Lord on your side and keep it in prayer but that is all unless you have to go back to court but if you do the attorney will most likely prove that this person is equally at fault and first even before you. That's my opinion. Right now it doesn't matter who is at fault. It's best for you to drop it and let the friend handle her own affairs.