TEXAS AND VIRGINIA PROBATION VIOLATION....?

I'LL TRY TO KEEP THIS SHORT. MY FIANCEE' LIVES IN VIRGINIA, I AM IN TEXAS. IN 2006, I WAS PULLED OVER FOR DWI, SENTENCED TO 6 MOS. JAIL/ 2 YEARS PROBATION, AND HAVE ONLY SERVED 8 MONTHS OF THE 2 YEAR PROBATION. I WAS TOLD BY MY LAWYER I WOULD BE ABLE TO TRANSFER NO QUESTION, HOWEVER, THE STATE OF VIRGINIA REJECTED IT, W/ NO REASON WHY. I TRIED TO TURN MYSELF IN, SERVE OUT MY SENTENCE TO MOVE UP THERE. I NEED UP THERE. SHE IS QUADRIPLEGIC, HER MOM CARES FOR HER, AND IS GETTING OLD (ER), LOL... ANYWAY, I HAVE DONE ALL REQUIRED BY PROBATION, NO VIOLATIONS, NO PROBLEMS, AND HE SAID IF I TURN MYSELF IN, I NEED TO HIRE AN ATTORNEY. I CAN'T AFFORD ONE. WHICH LEAVES ME NO OTHER OPTIONS, ON TOP OF WHICH, HE TOLD ME THAT THE COUNTY JAIL IS SO FULL, THE JUDGE WOULDN'T TAKE ME ANYWAY. SO, THE QUESTION IS: IF I JUST MOVED TO VIRGINIA, VIOLATING MY PROBATION, THEN, TURNED MYSELF IN, HOW MUCH MORE TIME WOULD BE ADDED TOO IT? I KNOW THAT VIRGINIA I'M SURE IS DIFFERENT THAN TEXAS' LAWS, AND THAT IT JUST DEPENDS. SECOND, IS THIS AN UNEXTRADITABLE OFFENSE? IT IS MY 1ST DWI BY THE WAY. A MISDEMEANOR. I'VE NEVER BEEN IN TROUBLE BEFORE, MADE ONE MISTAKE, ALL-BE-IT STUPID, BUT AM DESPERATE AND HAVE NO OTHER OPTIONS. IF SOMEONE KNOWS, PLEASE ANSWER? AND OF COURSE, I AM OPEN TOO ANY OTHER SUGGESTIONS ABOUT DOING IT THE RIGHT WAY, WHICH IS THE WAY I'D PREFER IT ANYWAY. NO, SERVING THE 17/18 MONTHS PROBATION IS NOT AN OPTION, FYI. ANYWAY, NO ONE SEEMS TOO KNOW. P.O. SAYS IT DEPENDS. HE TOLD ME IF I WAS SO DESPERATE TO TURN MYSELF IN, COMMIT A CRIME, BUT MAKE SURE IT IS MINOR? SO, NOW, I HAVE TO GO THROUGH THE TEXAS PENAL CODE AND FIND AN OFFENSE THAT CARRIES THE LEAST CONSEQUENCES? MY THOUGHTS ARE, I STEAL 1 PIECE OF GUM FROM A CANDY STORE. YOURS? LOL. (NO, THAT IS NOT AN OPTION, EITHER.) THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THE TIME, HOPEFULLY SOMEONE KNOWS.